I voted for "don't use / don't like" - but I DO use them ... I just don't like them. They're a tool, and I've filtered through a LOT of garbage to come up with what I use. I don't like them because they add overhead. Usually a LOT of overhead - and I don't use them for much.
The one I use and like most, is Phalcon. You've got to have a VPS because you're installing Apache modules, but most all my sites are on a VPS now anyway. My second in line is Laravel. It's by far the most popular, and has a larger community which is helpful. I've used Slim more, because I don't use tons of framework functionality, and I'm adverse to Composer.
Phalcon is an Apache module so it's compiled in C giving it the potential to be faster than any framework in PHP (provided it's coded reasonably well, and it is). I use a framework basically for routing, and a template engine. I can get both without one, but why? I don't use ORM, and I really don't like it. My models are classes that run sql. My front controller doesn't use "mvc" routing where the url is /controller/method/variable1/variable2 ... I define them all. So I don't need or want a heavy framework. I don't like my code interspersed with a million libraries I'll never use. I don't like to dig through frameworks code to get to directories where my controllers are, or where my views are. So Phalcon, it's all your code in PHP, you're calling C code through the Apache module instead of a a bunch of crap in the Composer directory structure.
Best for me: Phalcon, because devops isn't a problem, it's template engine is excellent, and it's all fast.
Best for most: Laravel, because all the tutorials / walk throughs love Composer, and Laravel is made for that environment. It's very full featured, and the most popular by far. Best documentation, and it's respectably fast considering it's features.
Best for some: Slim. Especially if you're building an API and all you need is a router. You can even drop Eloquent in there if you need an ORM. I used to use it with Twig - but since I do the "no Composer" method, it's install isn't any easier than Phalcon which is orders of magnitude faster.